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Updated Jan 30, 2014 - 7:34 am

Documentary focuses on Valley couple's fight to save autistic son

Michael Terrill, director of "Be with Me," and Lori Cairns are pictured. (KTAR photo/Bob McClay)

PHOENIX -- There is some exciting news Thursday morning for a southeast Phoenix family.

A movie about their lives has been added to the list of films that will be shown April at the Phoenix Film Festival, which takes place at Harkins Theatres at Scottsdale Road and the Loop 101.

"Be with Me" is the story of Lori and Jim Cairns and their son, J.R.

J.R. was 2 when Lori took him to the doctor in 1996.

"She told me to go home and make sure that he liked his room, because he was going to go in and never come out," Lori said. "She said he would probably be in an institution by the time he was 17."

J.R. was diagnosed as autistic and mentally retarded. After their initial shock, Lori and Jim decided to fight for their son. Lori began to use what was then a new therapeutic approach called applied behavioral analysis. She brought experts to Arizona to work with J.R.

The results have been nothing short of a miracle.

J.R. is now 20, and is living a normal life. He graduated with honors from high school. He is living on his own and attending college while also working at a local restaurant. An avid golfer, J.R. is working this week at the Waste Management Phoenix Open in Scottsdale.

One in 88 children in the United States is diagnosed with autism. Dealing with the affliction can devastate families, but Lori hopes that J.R.'s story and the documentary will give people hope.

Michael Terrill is the film's writer, director and producer.

"It's a story of family and therapists coming together, and they had the best outcome possible," he said. "If you met him today, you would never know that he had that diagnosis."

The film took two years and $60,000 to make. It is already making an impact with audiences.

"Be with Me" won the best drama documentary (short) award when it debuted in October at the Atlanta International Documentary Film Festival. Two showings in the past two weeks have drawn big crowds to the Harkins Valley Art in Tempe. The Cairns' story is also set to be screened at a film festival in Richmond, Va. Michael and Lori will head to Greece next month, where it will be shown at yet another film festival.

Terrill is pretty proud of J.R., and of the movie.

"This is not your typical autism documentary," said Terrill. "You will come in. You will cry. But you will leave the theater happy. That's what we want for everyone."

The following video is a trailer for the documentary:

About the Author

Years with the company: I started on January 2, 2006.

Education: I was born in San Antonio, Texas, but we moved to Phoenix when I was one-year-old in 1957. I grew up here and graduated from Alhambra High School and attended Phoenix College.

Family: I live in north Phoenix with my wife Rene' and my son Devin.

Favorite food: Lots of favorite food, but our favorite restaurant is Fajitas.

Favorite spot in Arizona: The Little America Hotel in Flagstaff.

Favorite news memory: We have to go back to October 15, 1979. I was a country music air personality at KROP Radio in Brawley, California, when we had a 6.7 earthquake. Thankfully, there were no deaths and only minor injuries, but the entire community was pretty freaked out and listening to the station on their transistor radios. I would not want to go through an earthquake again, but it sure was a great night to work in radio and see how it can make a difference in people's lives.

First job: Working as a stringer for 'The Arizona Republic' at high school football games. My first real job was flipping burgers at the old Sandy's Hamburgers at 51st Avenue and Indian School Road. My first radio job was as announcer at KALJ radio in Yuma in 1977.

First concert: My Dad took me to see Jimmy Dean at the Arizona State Fairgrounds in the 1960's. It was before the Coliseum was built. The only thing I remember is Jimmy Dean singing his big hit "Big Bad John."

Favorite sports team: Phoenix Roadrunners minor league hockey. My dad took me to a game when I was in grade school, and I was hooked. I wanted to be a radio hockey play-by-play man. I used to take my cassette recorder and sit up in the rafters of the Coliseum and do play-by-play. It was great later in life to also take my son to Roadrunners games. Too bad the team just folded, I'll miss them. (Going to the Coyotes is fun, but they're not "my" team.)

Outside interests: My family and I are active in our church - Shiloh Community Church in Phoenix. Devin is a high school student at Scottsdale Christian Academy. He plays on the baseball, football, and basketball teams and sings in the choir. Obviously, we keep busy trying to go to all his events! We enjoy going to movies, sporting events, and long road trips. We like to vacation at the Beach Cottages in the Pacific Beach area of San Diego. And I love to play catch, basketball, football with my son.


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